🍌Whether size matters or not when it comes to sex has been a big debate. However, the G-Spot has proven pretty effectively that vulva-havers’ orgasms don’t really depend on size, but the knowledge of how to use what you have. No matter how big or small, there are positions that will improve the experience for both parties.
What if he has less to work with? Missionary is a good option, allowing for deeper penetration. Placing pillows under the vulva-haver’s hips can heighten the experience even more.
What if he’s a bit too much? Spooning and cowgirl are going to be your friends here. The curvature of spooning limits how deep a partner can go, while cowgirl lets the vulva-haver control how deep and fast penetration is.
Size doesn’t matter. Like they say, “It isn’t about the size of the boat, it’s about the motion of the ocean.” What is important is choosing a good position that works with what you have, not against it.
Besides, penetration isn’t the end-all, be-all of sex. People tend to think of using hands and mouths as the build-up to the “main act” when these can really be just as much fun. Also, don’t underestimate how much sex toys can add to the experience. You don’t have to limit your partners based on size. Big or small, you can still have a good time.
