Let’s face it, no partner is a mind-reader. Being open about your sexual needs is the way to go if you want to develop a deep emotional connection with your SO and enjoy a healthy, satisfying, fulfilling sex life. If talking about sex doesn’t come naturally to you, here’s a step-by-step guide to get started:
💛 Let your partner know if you feel awkward, and ask for support to continue the conversation.
💛 Just say what concerns you. It’ll get easier, once you start.
💛 Be specific and concise. A 15-minute talk is likely to leave you more comfortable than a longer one.
💛 Incorporate a book or a movie to initiate a discussion or illustrate your question.
💛 Make it a regular thing. Each new conversation will bring you closer together.